Sunday, December 29, 2013

Do not Feed the Fears

It is not a Part of my Authenticity to be Fearful
I love this quote.  It's absolutely true.. Please don't feed the fears.  When we do, we behave in ways that are not in accordance with our authentic self.

Every single personality disorder and most mental diseases, even, are grounded in FEAR.  
Fear controls great numbers of people in ways ranging from the personal in-authenticity of the abused child/person - to the damaging effects on great societies by authoritarian regime governments wielding oppression.

I'll never forget the NM told me when I was still a teenager that she learned years ago how to divide and conquer.  This, she said is the way she raised her children.  But, she didn't add that she also uses the same tools with teens and adults - anyone in her life or who she deals with that might need to be controlled and manipulated for reasons that she sees fit.  This is the way narcissists and or psychopaths think and behave.  It is our responsibility to understand this and NOT give them the power to do so.

More and more with social media, the word is getting out and these people are losing that edge.  But, they will try to become more clever to combat this knowledge. It will be interesting to see what the newer generations of N's and P's come up with, and how far they will go to get what they want.

Beware and be fearless.

We don't have to be paranoid, but beware.  They are only 4-6 in one hundred and mostly found in the corporate world (Wall Street NYC) the banking industry, high level university positions, and prisons.  Unfortunately, there are those other few who can be found in your neighborhood or even your own home.

Just be knowledgeable and FEARLESS.  Fear is their greatest tool... placing fear and using your fear against you.  Without others' fear, they are powerless.

Here's to kicking Fear to the curb friends xx


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