They start with the almighty denial and end with the accusations. And they never forget to throw in the righteous indignation. Their accusations are pretty steadily "craziness and incoherence" - never fails.
Tell a narcissist the truth and it doesn't look good. The fall out is always the above. Always.
Oh, how did I forget the projection!! All of their accusations and defensive posture is putting onto you what and who THEY are.
You will notice that I ignore the narcissistic comments more often than I engage. They stand well enough on their own and the narcissist is too proud to even be aware that he/she is lying before you every single narcissistic trait for you to understand and learn more about them.
So, when you come across a post with such comments ... consider the source/s. They never travel alone. They bring their trolls and flying monkeys along and even say so in the comment. You can learn so much from these folks if you happen to come across them. But in real life I recommend avoiding trying to learn directly from them.
THE NEXT DAY:
Well, told ya. Doesn't take long... Here he is already. You can see him in the comments here AND IN THE GOLDEN CHILD POST. I'm not bothering to read them. I said all needs be already. Just consider this particular malignant narcissist was raised by two covert narcissists.
They raised him on drugs and without a solid home for his formative years. I drove all the way to Florida to see this child (now in his 30's) and his baby brother only to find them living in a campsite running around with knives without supervision. "Parents" were high on drugs and alcohol and really totally unavailable to parent children. This, his mother told me, was how it remained until she found religion. Notice I don't say God. She found herself struggling as these children grew unschooled and needed help from the community. They taught her to for the first time in her childrens' lives place some boundaries and discipline. For one child (this one) it was too late, and for the other it worked. For these reasons, I can't totally blame him for becoming a narcissist, but for being proud of it and wanting to remain so cruel in his thirties I have no feeling whatsoever.
We ended up leaving, driving all the way back up north just shaking our heads. It was a very disturbing sight. My other sister went to visit and left also with the same story - couldn't take it.
This Louisa he talks about, and even though I haven't read the comments (3 I think my dashboard says), is his livin lover and from what I have seen of her personally, is just as dead asleep as he is - total unawareness. Not really impressed with anything she has to say or he says she says, but I guarantee he brought her in on these comments. She is his toadie, flying monkey, and main support system. Without her he'd need to seek out another to sustain himself.
Like all narcissists, he's so arrogant, I'm sure though I don't need to point this out. However, I'll give him that he has a good imagination and some writing skill. Had he an education, he could have ended up a successful narcissist.
Read it and learn ....
THESE COMMENTS ON THIS POST AND THE GOLDEN CHILD POST ARE LIKELY NARCISSISM AT IT'S FINEST. LIES, DENIAL, PROJECTION, AND THE CRAZY CARD.
Pretty sure I can say the above without even reading the comments. I know who the person is, and I know what he is..... Now you all do.
BOTTOM LINE: Don't engage them.
I just celebrated my 29th wedding anniversary, it is two days away from Spring, and continuing plans for traveling throughout the rest of this year. There's too much beauty in the world to be exposed to toxicity.
We always have a choice.
Moving on. Still not deleting anything.... Just moving on.
